By Jenn Wint
Congratulations, we’ve all just survived the saddest day of the year. The third Monday in January has come to be known as "Blue Monday," and it’s now behind us. By that third week of January, the joy and celebratory indulgence of the holiday season is a distant memory. All we’re left with now is a credit card bill, tighter jeans and, in the Northern Hemisphere, a never-ending stretch of short, wet, cold days. “This is hibernation season,” says Kari Fitzgerald, LCPC, ERYT, Clinical Director at Birchwood Wellness Group. “The lack of motivation experienced through the January and February winter months should be its own designation. The bears have it right.”
There’s a lot of pressure in January to set goals, pick back up your fitness routine, abstain from alcohol, open a savings account, and embrace a ‘new year, new me’ persona. But it’s challenging to set goals by an arbitrary flip of the calendar page, especially when you’re feeling uninspired. “The pressure to set resolutions and improve yourself in the new year stems from societal expectations and the symbolic significance of a fresh start,” shares Christina Faedo RPC-C, RTCc, Founder and Clinical Director at Pierpoint Counseling. “These positive intentions can also set people up for disappointment. The new year is a time to be gentle with yourself.”
Here are some self-care tips to look after your mental health until spring heats up.
“My advice to clients facing the winter blues is to find activities that bring joy, like engaging in hobbies, spending time with friends or loved ones, and getting outdoors when possible,” says Faedo. “Establish a routine, prioritize self-care, and consider talking to someone about your feelings. It’s a tough time of year, so again… take care and be gentle on yourself.”
“I suggest taking this time to ask yourself what you really need emotionally, physically, spiritually, financially,” continues Fitzgerald. “Not want – but NEED.”
The good news is, spring and even summer are coming. We’ve only got a few weeks before the sun is setting after dinner time and temperatures are heating up. In the meantime, let’s give ourselves compassion and permission to start the year slowly, imperfectly and possibly without changes from the year before. If being gentle and prioritizing self care isn’t easing the winter blues, it’s important to seek professional support.
HOW YOU CAN HELP:
Find someone to talk to. If you’re feeling down, making time with a counselor provides resources and directs you towards better mental health.
Add Vitamin D. Whether it’s a supplement, a vitamin D lamp or a road trip to somewhere warmer, getting enough Vitamin D is a way to manage the winter blues
Make self care a daily priority. Taking time and making space to work on your mental health will pay off in the long run.